Why bother with online dating
Why bother with online dating
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However, it has one major flaw that will make many women skip over it. Lets look at another bad profile: “I went to school in the east coast, but now I work for a major software company where I work up the corporate ladder. I love hiking, watching baseball, and bbq on weekends.” – the writer must be reminded that this is a dating profile – not a resume or a sales presentation in front of his human resources department. as a rule, you should never start your profile by talking about school or work, as it’s not interesting and not really relevant to what you should be trying to achieve – to catch a woman’s attention.” “I love to have fun, party, dance, and drink of my buddies.
They're afraid that you'll "take their women" (as if women belong to someone.) In reality they're jealous and insecure. They're jealous because their society holds them back from dating Korean girls the way they want.
Expats on the other hand don't have to deal with their society as much.
Unlike most Western cultures - in Korea's culture it's borderline weird to talk to strangers (or "mollen saram" as you would say in Korea.) To talk to strangers means that you have no friends or family.
So if you strike a conversation with her (even to ask for directions) she might walk away.
Because she's not supposed to talk to you AND she might have to speak English…this makes her even more uncomfortable.
But let's say you do get to talk to girls from Korea and set up dates.
Some women will think of the writer of the profiles below as weird, but…
ideally you shouldn’t be interested in “most” women anyway, but you should be targeting those women with your profile that you believe you will get along and will have a connection – whether you are looking for a short-term dating, a lifetime partnership or anything in between: “About Me: I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives.
From their society's perspective - if she deviates from this then indirectly she becomes an "outcast".
Even if she doesn't the fear of becoming one will hold her back from dating you.
Note: Korean guys reading this - don't confuse the message with the messenger. I also know that you think that most Western men look down on you (and all this adds to the resentment.) Then again I'm open to debate as to what you think is going on. Discover how to meet hot Korean women and make it happen. In any case - Korean women are gorgeous and going through the process to date one is worth it.